After doing a lot of research and reading reviews, I choose these. http://www.rhok.com.au/jeans.htm
Got mine on flebay though.
Had them for 10 months/14,000 miles, crash tested once, and still look new. They dont have the firefighter look, and are not skinny jeans, right in between. I feel these were perfect for what I was looking for. I like them so much, I think I am going to order a blue pair next.